you're not timeless—and your style isn't either.

👋🏻 Hey, I'm Elyse. I'm a personal style coach. People hire me when they're ready to finally nail their personal style, learn to shop strategically, and show up fully as their authentic self—inside and out. Why me? Because I know that it's about the clothes—but it's not just about the clothes.

THE UNFOLDING

Define your personal style, learn to shop strategically, & show up fully as your authentic self—inside and out.

A PERSONAL STYLE AND SELF-DEVELOPMENT LAB.

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align your inner and outer selves

Uncovering our singular style requires getting clarity on our current style and the style we want to cultivate in the future. First, we define the aesthetic, and then we peel back the layers to what is underneath: our identity.

wear your values, not your fears

Too often we let our unconscious beliefs about body, money, beauty, and fashion rule how we dress and shop. We must get clear on our values and desires if we want to build ease and discernment in our style.

your wardrobe should support you

Intentions and goals matter, but style is all in your habits. Create habits of daily dressing, shopping, and style planning that feel supportive, confident, and value-aligned.

Welcome! I'm Elyse, and I'm on a mission to help self-determined women just like you show up fully as their authentic, incredible selves—inside and out. I don't want you to ever spend another dollar, frantic morning, or endless scroll agonizing over your style.

My superpower is seeing all of you, and knowing exactly what you need to do next to turn your wardrobe dreams into reality. (And maybe a few other big dreams while we're at it.)

Think of me like that one friend you actually like to go shopping with, a life coach, and a personal trainer mixed up into one. With me as your style coach, you're getting a curated education of all things style, mind-melting coaching reframes, my enthusiasm and cheerleading (I'm a Gemini), and all the strategies you need to get stylish on your own terms—finally!

photo of Elyse looking attentively at a client, with a worksheet in her hands

here's my .02¢

  1. True personal style is about showing up as your authentic self—not an optimized, fashionable self.
  2. Defining our personal style is also a process of defining our personal values, and it can be a conduit for us to step into the next level version of ourselves.
  3. Style is a skill you can learn, not something you're born with (or without).
  4. Style can take you on a journey of feminist thought and practice, critical thinking, and self-awareness.
  5. It's not really about the clothes.
Read the Values Pledge →

investing in your personal style is transforming your relationship to your clothes and your body. thinking critically. opting out of diet culture. taking care of your nice things. practicing sustainable and intentional consumption. choosing joy. uncovering the style that is singularly yours. respecting your financial goals. loving yourself. raising your feminist consciousness. letting it be easy. wearing your values on the outside. feeling amazing every day in your clothes. are you ready?